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Jerry's Kid
By Mark Rizzo

It was Labor Day weekend, 1977. I should have been in our rickety above ground swimming pool. I was avoiding it because my mom was in there, waiting. She was trying to toughen me up for second grade and always wanted to play "The Dunking Game." I had just flunked another swimming class at the Scranton YMCA and had been told in Catechism class that you could drown in a bathtub, so I stayed inside the house fetching beers for my Irish uncles.

Uncle Genie and Uncle Paulie sold Hart Schaffner and Marx suits to the doctors and lawyers in town, so they always dressed "sharp." Uncle Frankie was a mechanic and looked just like Frank Sinatra. Everybody said so. They were my Rat Pack and I was their mascot. Since I was half Italian, they liked to call me "the little spaghetti bender." My uncles all shared a casino-flavored wit that was informed by occasional visits to Atlantic City to see Don Rickles.

From another part of the house I could hear my dad doing his Jerry Lewis imitation, "Deeean! Deeean!" This meant that the Love Network had signed on. I doled out another round of Schaeffers and made a dash for the dark brown living room because when the Love Network signed on, I had to be there on the floor too close to the television set because I was obsessed with Jerry's Kids.

Jerry's Kids were, and still are, afflicted with the disease Muscular Dystrophy and the Love Network is the collective term for the television stations that locally broadcast The Jerry Lewis Muscular Dystrophy Telethon. Eventually the whole family would join me in the living room to settle in and watch the cripples. I should say here that this was a time when a person could say "crippled" or "cripple" and it was ok. Like, you could watch the Telethon and say, "Aw, look at that poor crippled kid hugging Sammy Davis, Jr." and it was fine. But if you were prone to euphemism in 1977 you could do what my father did and refer to a handicapped child as one of "Jerry's Kids."

This was a little confusing. During my first few Telethons I was under the impression that Jerry Lewis had personally sired an entire generation of cripples. Dean Martin, Sammy Davis and Ed McMahon were like the cripples' doting uncles who liked to tip a few. But even after I figured out that Jerry's Kids were not actually Jerry's kids, the telethon was still my favorite show ever.

"The tele-ton" they all used to call it. My family has a few of these special pronunciations. The consonant blend "th" that is lost from "teleton" is recovered in the mispronunciation of the word "phanthom." Inexplicably, the word souvenir becomes "silveneer" in the family dialect. So my mother might say, "Instead of watching the teleton this year we went to see The Phanthom of the Opera and shopped for silveneers."

We would sit around and watch the teleton all through that long weekend. Top drawer entertainment all in one variety show live from Las Vegas. And those heart rending stories of the children in wheelchairs. First you would see the video presentation of a crippled boy in the middle of a large green field as a voice-over of his parents would play. They would talk about how Tommy couldn't run and play like the other kids. Wheelchair Tommy was laughing in the field as butterflies flitted into the frame. He was lit softly, like an aging diva. Then we would be back in Vegas, on stage with Jerry and there was Tommy wheeling out to meet him. Tearing up, Jerry would lean down to hug Tommy with one arm as he held the microphone in the other hand. Jerry never broke eye contact with the audience, offering up his face as the conduit of pathos we had come to rely upon every September. Then he would snap to attention and madly yell, "Tympani!" which meant that he wanted a drum roll which meant that he wanted Ed McMahon to read the new total of money raised for his kids. The total appeared on a glittery scoreboard where the numbers would fly around until they arrived at the appropriate destination. Like a slot machine.

The tympani made everyone nervous. Me, Jerry, Ed and even poor little Tommy in his wheelchair. As the drum rumbled and the numbers flipped, there was a part of me that believed Jerry and his kids could come up snake eyes this time. Zeros across the board. But the grand total always grew larger, and at the age of seven I knew the gambler's catharsis because of Jerry Lewis. He made each "Tympani!" feel like a new jackpot won. "Yeah!" Jerry would cry out in his "hey-lady" voice, drenched with sweat, tears and Vitalis. He had been entertaining our asses off for two days now. He looked like the gambler who stayed at the table just long enough for the odds to go his way. He made money raised for a good cause feel slightly shabby. And kind of scary. Jerry, his kids and his teleton terrified me. But I loved it. Every "Tympani!" was boozy magic.

We never gave any money. In my family we took the adage "Charity begins at home" to the next level. Charity began and ended at home for us. The one exception to this that I remember was that Labor Day weekend when I was seven. My parents dragged me away from the television and took me to the Muscular Dystrophy Carnival. This was an event run by WNEP TV 16 -- The News Station, the Northeastern Pennsylvania affiliate of The Love Network. The Carnival took place in open fields near Avoca International Airport. It was quite a scene there near the runways. There were throngs of people playing games and riding rides and eating fun foods like funnel cake which we all called Pizza Frite. And all of the money went to Jerry's Kids. As a child I was afraid of crowds, rides and carnival games. The best-case scenario for me was a quick Pizza Frite and back in the car and home to Jerry and the kids. I might miss Deano singing "That's Amore" or a video package of a little crippled girl watching ballet class.

But in an instant my perspective changed. I could see in the distance a crowd gathering around one of those flatbed trailers that convert into stages for the display of local celebrities. And there she was, the local celebrity that held on to my imagination with a grip that rivaled Jerry Lewis': Miss Judy. She hosted the morning cartoon show Hatchy Milatchy. Miss Judy was probably in her early forties then and she had a teenage daughter, but her look was crafted in the virginal image of Snow White. Her hair was jet black, her skin a brilliant white and her dress was a Seventh Avenue knock-off of the original Disney design. She presided over the magical land of Hatchy Milatchy where the ground was made of rubber.

If you run and you fall
You'll just bounce like a ball
In the land of Hatchy Milatchy

On your birthday you would tune into Hatchy Milatchy and Miss Judy would say "Happy Birthday to Mark Rizzo in the Bellevue section of Scranton. He's four years old today. Now Mark, if you look under the brown plaid sofa in the living room, I think that you will like what you find." And of course, miraculously, there it was! Under the sofa was the plastic rifle that shot ping pong balls! Just what I wanted. Miss Judy had conjured it. She could see things ordinary people couldn't. She could make things happen. And her magic was all good. Years later we learned that Miss Judy's daughter was a drug addict and everyone in my family thought this was really funny. To this day I get upset when they bring it up.


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